What is the name of the song that goes "this is not my house,this is not my wife"?

I heard this on a Men of a Certain Age commercial and this other commercial for a Nicholas Cage movie made in the 90's or early 2000's





it sounds like there might be piano somewhere in the background and it sounds somewhat upbeat.





Thanks! : )|||Yahoo search: "as the days go by"





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The title appears to be "Once in a Lifetime."|||It's The Talking Heads,not sure of the song title